Building a Support System During an Unexpected Pregnancy

March 3, 2023
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An unexpected pregnancy can be a bit overwhelming, but the good news is that having a solid support system can make all the difference. You see, a support system can provide emotional and practical help, aid you in making informed decisions, and be a constant source of comfort and encouragement during your pregnancy and beyond. 


In what ways can you build a supportive network during this special time?


First, we suggest that you
talk to your partner. If you have someone by your side, open and honest conversations about your feelings and worries are critical. Your partner can be a valuable source of support for you, both emotionally and in practical ways. In addition, you can feel more connected and secure in your relationship by talking about your expectations, fears, and hopes for the future.


Next,
reach out to your family and friends. Your loved ones can offer you emotional support, especially if they have had a similar experience. So don't be afraid to ask for their support. And if they cannot offer help, they might still be able to connect you with other resources.


Joining a
pregnancy support group can also be helpful. This can give you a community of people going through the same thing as you. These groups can offer emotional support, practical advice, and a safe space to discuss your feelings and concerns.


Professional counseling
can also be a great way to cope with the emotional challenges of an unexpected pregnancy. A trained therapist can provide support, help you navigate your feelings, and give you coping strategies for the challenges that might come up.


And lastly, there are many
online resources available to those facing an unexpected pregnancy. From online forums and support groups to educational resources, these resources can help you feel informed and empowered during this time.


Building a support system during an unexpected pregnancy is essential for your and your baby's well-being. By reaching out to those you trust, connecting with others in similar circumstances, and utilizing available resources, you can create a supportive network that will help you navigate this journey confidently. 


Knowing where to turn in the midst of the unexpected is important. And at Collage, we would love to walk alongside you on your path. From your first lab-quality pregnancy test to your first ultrasound to confirm your pregnancy, we're devoted to being a part of your support. We value connection, so don't hesitate to get in touch with us by
email or phone call (Kearney 308.234.9880 or Grand Island 308.675.2217). 

September 30, 2026
If you took the first abortion pill, it’s possible to start wishing you hadn’t. The regret may have hit you immediately, or it might have taken a few hours to realize that you want to continue the pregnancy. Either way, there may still be something you can do: abortion pill reversal (APR) may be an option. The first drug used in the abortion pill regimen is usually mifepristone. If you have taken mifepristone but now want to continue your pregnancy, call the Abortion Pill Reversal Network at 1-877-558-0333 right away. Their Helpline is available 24/7 and can connect you with a medical provider who can administer APR. If You Have Only Taken the First Pill Mifepristone works by blocking progesterone. Progesterone helps maintain the lining of the uterus during pregnancy. When this hormone is blocked, the uterine lining thins, and the pregnancy ends. The second drug in the abortion pill regimen is misoprostol , which causes the uterus to contract and expel the pregnancy. Abortion pill reversal involves giving progesterone after mifepristone in an effort to allow the pregnancy to continue. Don’t Wait for Symptoms Before Calling You may wonder whether you should wait before deciding what to do. But if you want to try to continue the pregnancy, call first.  It’s critical to start the protocol as soon as possible, ideally within 24 to 48 hours of taking mifepristone. However, you should still call even when more time has passed; it may not be too late. A medical provider can determine whether APR may still be appropriate. Does Reversal Always Work? Abortion pill reversal cannot guarantee that the pregnancy will continue. One published study reported ongoing pregnancy rates of approximately 64% to 68% with certain progesterone regimens, but individual outcomes vary. The important thing is to get medical guidance quickly rather than trying to determine your chances on your own. What if You Already Took Misoprostol? If you have already taken misoprostol, contact a healthcare professional promptly and explain exactly what you took and when. You should also seek immediate medical attention if you develop symptoms that concern you or believe you may be experiencing a medical emergency. Make the Call Now Changing your mind after taking mifepristone can be frightening, especially when you’re unsure whether there is still time to act. You don’t need to figure that out yourself. Call the Abortion Pill Reversal Network at 1-877-558-0333 as soon as possible and tell them when you took mifepristone. They can explain whether abortion pill reversal may still be an option and connect you with an appropriate provider. You can also contact Collage if you need someone to speak with while you work through your next steps. We’re here to help you. *Collage does not provide or refer for abortions; however, we do offer pre-abortion screening through our no-cost services. **All abortion information in this blog is based on accurate information at the time of writing.
September 7, 2026
Seeing another positive pregnancy test after having had a past abortion may bring up memories or emotions from that experience. If you already know you don’t want another abortion, you may be wondering what other choices you have and whether either feels realistic for your life right now. You have time to learn about your options and the available support. Collage is here to give you a place to discuss your circumstances so you can decide what’s right for you. Schedule a no-cost appointment today to learn more about your pregnancy and what your next steps could look like. And read on to learn more about your pregnancy options besides abortion. Consider What Parenting Would Require You may want to parent but have concerns about whether you can make it work. Finances, housing, childcare, your relationship, work, or school can all influence how possible this option feels right now. Before deciding that those challenges make parenting unrealistic, it can help to identify your biggest concerns individually. Some of those concerns may have solutions you haven’t considered yet. Think about the support you already have, along with what you would need during pregnancy and after your baby arrives. Knowing where the gaps are can make it easier to find resources rather than trying to solve everything at once. Learn More About Adoption If you don’t want another abortion but aren’t ready to parent, adoption is another option. Today, a woman making an adoption plan can have a significant role in deciding what that plan looks like. Depending on the type of adoption, you may be able to choose an adoptive family and decide what level of contact you would like after placement. Open, semi-open, and closed adoption offer different levels of communication and privacy. Speaking with a licensed adoption professional can help you understand these differences, your rights, and what the process would involve before you make any commitments. Discuss Your Options in a Confidential Space Having had an abortion before does not mean you have to make the same pregnancy decision again. Your feelings, circumstances, priorities, or perspective may be different this time. If you know you don’t want another abortion, start by learning what parenting and adoption could realistically look like in your current situation. Collage provides a place to talk about your pregnancy and the concerns influencing your decision. We can also connect you with adoption agencies and community organizations that provide the support you’re seeking. Reaching out doesn’t lock you into a specific decision. Schedule a no-cost appointment with Collage today to get your questions answered and explore the options available to you. Collage does not provide or refer for abortions; however, we do offer pre-abortion screening through our no-cost services.
August 11, 2026
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